Happy Valentine's Day my sister- in- love 😻 😻

I had always envied those who had Bhabhi until November last year. I had many friends or other people around me who used to talk about their Bhabhis or in some cases boast about them.

So, it was one of my longest dreams to get a Bhabhi. Thanks to my Bhaiya, who got married and I got this amazing and refreshing relationship, which I had always craved for.

Now, I am having a few months experience of getting into this relationship and I think I have got all the rights to boast about it. After all, I have waited so long for this. 😁 

Having a Bhabhi has both its pros and cons. 😉 Let's first discuss its pros:-

• YOU GET A GOSSIP- PARTNER- Gossiping is attributed to girls. You start proving this point to be correct while talking with Bhabhi. You get into the role of 'Family- History- News- Reporter'. 😂 Since, you have invested all your life living with this family only, you know all about them; and what could be a better opportunity than this to impress someone with your easily acquired knowledge. 😄 Moreover, you can discuss any topic with her which you feel shy about to discuss with anyone else.

• YOU GET A RELIABLE PERSON FOR FASHION ADVICE- This may not be relatable to everyone, but for me it is hundred percent true. Fashion is something beyond my capacity. I have always been taunted for being Jassi. 😅 I could never understand  what goes with what, how to apply make- up and how to make a good hair- style which suits your personality. Although some of my cousins and friends could tell me that, but they all were not available all the time. So, a full time fashion advisor has appeared for me. 😎

• YOU GET SOMEONE TO TEASE YOU AROUND ALL THE TIME- Bhabhi is the creature who would never leave you when it comes to teasing. It is the job which she would perform with all her conviction and commitment. So, get ready to be teased about anything if you have got a Bhabhi. Teasing is by- product of having this relationship. 😅

• GET READY TO TASTE SOME CHANGES IN CONVENTIONAL FOOD, WHICH YOU HAVE BEEN EATING SINCE CHILDHOOD- India is the country of unity in diversity. We find different culture and different food- habits after crossing a distance of just a few Kilometers. No wonder if Bhabhi brings with her a different way of making some of the foods. So, refreshing and surprising changes in kitchen are bound to happen.  

• BITCHING ABOUT BHAI IS THE MOST ENTICING PERK- Fight between siblings is inevitable. Similarly, fight between partners cannot be avoided. So, naturally you have got a new member in your Army in war against Bhai. 💪😼 Interesting part is that I agree with Bhabhi when she complains about Bhai; despite having a different opinion just in order to settle old accounts with him. 😉 Bitching about other people around is also done when required. 🙈

The only con of having this new family- member is that YOU ARE NO MORE THE CENTER OF UNIVERSE FOR YOUR FAMILY. 😩 I, being the youngest in my family have felt it deeply. Earlier, my Mother used to save delicious 'Gajar ka Halwa' for me only. Now, she has changed entirely to hide it from me in order to serve it to her 'SANSKARI- BAHU', who wakes up early in the morning and takes bath before anyone else could win this competition. 😅 Father used to bring 'Laddoos' for me only, now he brings it for her only. 😭😭 Didi used to cook food keeping in mind my taste, i.e. more sweet- dishes and less spicy- dishes. Now, she cooks reversely. 😭😭😭 

In this situation, Bhaiya is the only one who is equally victimized and gets scolded by everyone in the family sometimes for no reason at all. 😑😑  I am always the first one to shout at him by the way. 😺 Another duty he has got is to open the overstuffed storage under the bed every third day in order to bring out new colourful clothes of her and I have got this new task of bringing matching bangles for every saree. 😣 

All these changes are sweet and refreshing. Its really wonderful to welcome a lovable new member to your family.

So this Valentine; I dedicate this post to her for joining our family whole heartily, for bringing immense love in my brother's life and for tolerating our irritating habits as well.

Happy Valentine's Day my sister- in- love 😻 😻  

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